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An Encounter On An NS Train In the Netherlands

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It happened on an NS Train ride

One of the joys of being the Shallow Man is that I often receive wonderful messages from my readers about various aspects of life in the Netherlands. The story I’m about to share with you below is one of the most interesting and touching messages I’ve ever received.

The not so quiet zone

Dear Shallowman, I would like to tell you all a story. It all happened in only 10 or 15 minutes, but it was the craziest and saddest thing that ever happened to me on a train. I took a train from Amsterdam Central Station and sat in the quiet zone area hoping it would be peaceful.

Please note that the Dutch regard quiet zones in trains as great places to hold in-depth conversations.

There was a Dutch woman sitting across the aisle from me. She was in her sixties, surrounded by bags and she was mumbling loudly to herself.

I asked her if she was OK, and her response was incomprehensible to me, to which I just replied: “Mijn Nederlands is niet zo good”. She looked exasperated and waving her hands in the air just said: “mijn moeder is niet meer!” I understood it. She had just lost her mother. I moved closer to her, we hugged, she cried on my shoulder.

old lady ignoring the NS train quiet zone
Rot op met je quiet zone

Dutch directness

I understood enough to know that she had just retrieved some of her mother’s belongings from a nursery home, and she pulled out old boxes of photographs from one of the bags she was carrying.

One by one, she would look at them and then hand me a photograph and tell me the about the story or people in it. I didn’t really understand everything she said but I nodded and looked amused. She was particularly proud of her old wedding photos (she is now divorced) and her son’s childhood shots.

Here is where things get awkward, browsing through many photographs, a particular collection came up. I can only say that what was going on in those photos was an orgy!

sm threesome

The first photo showed a younger version of this woman, half-naked, in a room with red walls sitting on a leopard print covered bed, and a man licking her face. I tried to hold in my nervous laughter, all the while she was pointing at it and saying how that man was a friend she hasn’t seen in a long time. Just as naturally as she was talking about her son’s childhood a second before.

The subsequent photos were the same man in bed making out with another woman, the three of them making out together, a second man posing with a dildo as long as my arm and the last was some pretty explicit girl on girl action of two other women. She talked about every single one of those friends with longing. As if they were pictures from a camping trip.

 

 

And so she continued perusing those photos, back to her family. Trips in a distant past. Until a photo of her mom and her son come up. She broke down in tears again.

It was on cue, the train had just arrived at my destination. I had to run out. I regret I didn’t even have the time to send her off with a hug, she seemed so lonely. It broke my heart.

I laughed when I left the train, for the second it took me to process what happened. Then I started to consider, why the hell had she retrieved her orgy photos from her mother’s belongings?! Why would she show them to a stranger? My best guess is that she was in shock and alone, after kissing her mom goodbye for the last time. With that thought, there was no more laughter. I too became sad and realized too late I should not have left her alone in that train surrounded by what was left of her mother’s memories.

No users of NS quiet zones were hurt during the writing of this post.

 

About Simon Woolcot

Infamous blogger, annoyance and self-confessed Shallow Man. Simon is a British expat who has lived in Amsterdam since 2004. As well as writing this blog, Simon also has a YouTube channel of the same name, writes and directs videos and hosts seminars about life in the Netherlands. He also works as a content marketing and SEO specialist.