Tag Archives: Dating Dutch men

My First Two Dates With Dutch Guys in the Netherlands

blue suit and brown shoes

Today’s post is a guest blog piece by the lovely Maja, who previously wrote about some of the things that Dutch guys say to people from Poland. New Country New Dating Experiences Moving to a new country is like starting a new relationship. At first, everything is exciting, better than …

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Tikkie and Dating the Dutch

A man sending a Tikkie

Dating the Dutch and the use of Tikkie Nothing says ‘romance’ more than receiving an unexpected Tikkie following a date or even the breakup of a relationship. In fact, it appears that using Tikkie, the smartphone app that allows the requesting of micropayments is so much a part of the …

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The Story of an Indian Woman Dating A Dutch Guy

Culture Shock the tale of an Indian woman and her relationship with A Dutch guy One of the joys of being the Shallow Man is that I regularly receive messages from my readers about their experiences and encounters with the Dutch. Over the years many posts I’ve written about dating …

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Dating in the Netherlands How to Make It Happn

Dating in the Netherlands How to Make It Happn Dear readers, please have your tissues ready as I’m about to tell you a sad story. Once upon a time, there was a lady by the name of Anouk. While waiting for a tram, she saw the man of her dreams, …

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The Video of How to Date Dutch men

How to Date a Dutch Man The expat lady, Stevie Long, having learned how to dress just like a Dutch girl, was so happy with the advice provided by the Shallow Man, that she asked me once more for help. This time in affairs of the heart. She was about …

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Dating an Expat Woman the Seven Deadly Mistakes

How not to date an expat

Dating an expat woman seven deadly mistakes The Shallow Man recently received the following message from a reader. “Shallow Man, I’ve noticed that you often provide advice to expats about dating the Dutch, but what about the other way round? I’m Dutch and used to agree with the slogan often worn …

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Five Differences Between British and Dutch Men

On an unusually sunny day in the workers paradise that is commonly known as the Netherlands, I’d just finished a run when I bumped into a Dutch friend of mine. I was wearing a sleeveless t-shirt. “It’s great that in the Netherlands we also have the right to bare arms, just like the …

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Differences between Dutch and American Men

American and Dutch Men, some Differences The Shallow Man recently watched an episode of Masterchef USA. When some of the contestants were told that they were going further in the show, they shouted. “YESSSSS, WOOHOOOO, USA, USA.” Contrast this with the contestants of the Dutch version of this programme, who usually respond …

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How to Attract Dutch Men

How to attract Dutch men, don't wear high heels

How to Attract Dutch Men I’d like to paint a picture for you. Just imagine for a moment that you put aside all of your hipster, right-on, PC, middle class principles, and decided to go out hunting an animal, let’s say for example a Lion. Well you wouldn’t just turn …

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Stuff Dutch Men Hate

New Kids publicity photo

Stuff Dutch Men Hate the Top nine The Shallow Man believes in equal opportunities for all. Having written about stuff Dutch people hate, as well as stuff Dutch women hate, It’s only fair that I turn my attention to Dutch men. In order to avoid the inevitable accusations that I …

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